Can a marriage survive when one spouse doesn’t make any effort?

My husband literally told me he shouldn’t have to try for me. We haven’t been married long at all. He doesn’t want to put any effort or work into our relationship. It’s so sad and depressing to me. I try so hard to be a good wife and I get nothing in return. He thinks I’m ridiculous for wanting him to actually put effort into our marriage. I’m not even talking about some huge thing. I just asked for appreciate, show me attention, and every so often maybe say something nice to me. When we first started dating. He’d leave me notes, tell me I’m Beautiful and acted like he cared about me. Now I’m lucky if he even speaks to me. I don’t know what to do. Nothing works. I just want to give up. 😭😔

Edit- he doesn’t think he should have to put any work in to our relationship. He thinks I should be happy and content with him just being home sitting on his phone. He doesn’t feel the need to date each other now that we’re married 🙄 I’ve talked to him in great detail, even given him ideas but he continues to tell me that stuff is dumb. I don’t think he’ll ever listen to my needs.