So had a small argument with husband I'm seriously confused right now so he wants to buy me what I would consider an expensive handbag (over $1,000) and I told him for him not to think I need this to be happy it's something that I'd love yes but not needed and he legit blew up saying I pissed him off that he already had planned to buy me it and he wants me to have it and he felt like I was turning him down, my response was like ok that's ok I'm very excited but I dont want to be selfish and me helping him save money is a priority for me since he works 2 jobs. I honestly wasnt expecting that kind of blow up over it how would you react to this should I have not said anything and just let him blow this money? I really dont know.