Kinks

Okay, so I’ve been in a relationship for about five months now and I’ve learned a lot about him and he’s learned a lot about me. I am very simple in my sex life so to say however he does have this fetish which is the typical boot fetish. He loves Boots and playing with Boots during sex however he is very coy about having sex I’ve only had sex with him two times in the past 5 months.

I’m not one for sex I do enjoy it and I am a girl so I do have needs however I’ve talk to him about it and want to encourage him to have sex with me. I just want to know if any other girls have had this situation. Is this something that I kinda need to talk to him about? because I do want to be pleased but I don’t want to constantly tell him what I want. Help?