LAZY husband

My husband of is lazy af in bed.

I get things started. I’ll get on top do things here n there and he always just lays there.. I’m on top all the time.. we don’t really foreplay we kinda just get to it ...

I’ve come to the point where I’m just gonna do things to him if he will do them to me. I’m not going to go down on him if he’s not going to go down on me.. and I’ve gone down on him a ton but I’ve stopped because he doesn’t “return the favor”

I’m starting to feel disgusting, he must not want me..

Idk what to do..I wax every month, I shower before we have intimacy..

I’ve told him what I would like, etc.. he always tells me “yes, I’d like to do that too” but NEVER does any of it..

Help,,, what should I do?