Hello girls!

I need your opinion on this matter. So I’ve been seeing this guy. I met him last 2016 at my first job when he asked a friend of mine if she could introduce us to each other. I had a boyfriend then so I didn’t pay him much attention. When I moved to my second company in 2017, he also started working there a few months after I started so we got to communicate again. We talked for a while but I ended up cutting it abruptly because I started seeing someone. Me and that guy broke up last year. Fast forward to now, we started communicating again two weeks ago and my God I’ve been enjoying spending time with him.

When we started talking again, he told me he loved me. He’s loved me for the past 2 years. And he understands that I’m not okay yet because of my recent break up. But he wants to be there for me while I rebuild myself. He’s the sweetest guy ever!!! And he gives me that safe feeling, you know? I get giddy and excited too but when I’m with him I feel like I’m home. Safe and peaceful. And I’m liking him more and more each time.

But the catch is, he’s married. They’re separated months after their marriage but haven’t annulled the marriage (We don’t have divorce in my country). The marriage was 6 years ago btw and they’ve been separated for over 3 years now. The reason he married her because she was pregnant. He tried to make it work at the start but it didn’t. Fast forward to now, he is saving up for the annulment. But it’s going to be a very long process. And I want to try making us work. Because we are happy together.

Any words of wisdom girls?