Whenever I use to let my daughter go to my MILs house I had to start sending her in her old clothes.

*I desperately try not to leave her over there anymore because my MIL goes behind my back and does everything I ask her not to do with my daughter like feeding her solids when I haven't started her on them yet and more.*

I did it because everytime I would pick my daughter up after 2 hours of being over there she would always be in different clothes. So I sent her in a cute outfit I bought from Carters since I would usually go out with family after I picked her up. And the clothes I'd pick her up in were some dull over washed boy oncies she got from idk where. And anytime I would ask for her clothes back she would say 'oh they're in the wash she got sweet potatoes on them' that started a fight because I have not started her on actual foods. Then the following time I'd ask again and she would tell me she doesnt have time to look for it. Next thing I know I find a 'Just In Case' tub in her hall closet she keeps extra baby stuff in. (Do yall think it's weird she went out and got everything a new mother would for my daughter to keep at her house? Ex. Crib, bunch of clothes(mainly boys), toys, stroller all of it even though she would always ask my husband for money to pay her bills) but the 'Just In Case' tub is baby clothes she keeps that my baby grows out of for if her other son has a baby and surprise! They're having a baby now.. and also surprise! Theres MY DAUGHTERS CARTERS OUTFIT IN THE TUB THAT I HAD JUST BOUGHT HER! I do not like my daughter going over there because its like shes tryna pretend my baby is hers? I dont have time🙄