Guys dealing with clits

So I fooled around with two guys this month (2 weeks apart) and let me just ask:

Why don’t guys pay enough attention to the clit? BOTH times I guided their fingers up and they prob messed with it for 5-10 seconds MAX and when back to jamming their fingers inside me. It felt good but it hurt cuz I was barely wet. Whenever I do it myself I can finish off in like 2 minutes but these dudes BRO. 🙄😂