I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and 2 months now and i have never been able to cum or have an orgasm ever in all my years of being sexually active . With my boyfriend currently , i have the urge to pee like i am about to cum but it never happens and I’m looking for any advice on how to cum or how to be more in control about my body. A few days ago i cried a bit during sex because it hurt so much and i was frustrated that i couldn’t have an orgasm even though he is hitting the right spots.