Expecting second born

Shai-Anne

My son is 2 and half and we're expecting a little girl Feb 18th. Any advise for balancing 2 kids? I dont want my son to be confused or feeling left out. I get sad knowing he will have to spend a couple nights without us while we are at the hospital. He knows his baby sister is in my belly and he's been helping me put her room together, so I think he understands somewhat.

Lately he's been especially loving with me, only wanting his mama. He's been hurting his dad's feeling because he doesn't want him, only me. I'm worried he's going to fight for me attention while I need to focus on my body healing and mastering breast feeding and the nb routine again.

Advise please