I’m 21 and pregnant. It was an unexpected pregnancy. I was scared to death when I found out and told my husband a few days later. We aren’t in the most comfortable position financially. We live paycheck to paycheck, I buy the minimum for groceries, never shop for clothes or unnecessary stuff, have one car, and live in a 1 b 1 b with my husband. At first we thought we would get an abortion and now I’m 19 weeks and undecided. I don’t want our child to live a limited life. I don’t know what to do. My husband is in the military so he’s gone during the year therefore our baby wouldn’t have his did all of the time. On a side note it’s like our sex life was terminated after I became pregnant. Would it be worse if we kept our baby? I’m not trying to say I wouldn’t give him up because of that because I already love my baby and the thought of not having him in our lives hurts, but what would help? I just have so many mixed emotions. I don’t want to give him up. I love him but I want to give him more. Has anyone been on the same boat? What did you do?