Is it just me or am I exaggerating...

I got my birth control troll taken out about a year and a half ago roughly and the husband and i haven’t conceived... i thought maybe it was just me but he never wants to have sex but wants a baby! (That’s what he tells me) but we never have a conversation about it being a boy or girl, when i wanna look at baby stuff he just stands there and gives me a general response like yeah it looks nice (I always just thought it was a typical guy) i already have a daughter and he’s pretty great with her ( a little strict but nothing too exaggerated) every time we have the i want a baby conversation it always goes “yeah me too” but every time i try to touch him he says “Your nails tickle me” “ Not right now babe” I’ve told him before that if we aren’t gonna try that I’ll just put my birth control back in, and he always says “No, i thought we were gonna try!” And i always ask how or when (since he never has time for sex. There is always and excuse!

I just need to talk to someone since he won’t talk to me... am i exaggerating? He is so attentive and supportive but we can’t ever talk baby.... tonight he said “Can we just talk about it in the morning” but he will just be too busy to talk to me then... and please do t say he’s cheating! Trust me he’s not!