My husband and I have decided that we do not want friends to visit at the hospital. hopefully he is flying home from deployment and I want him to spend as much time with her before he goes back. I’ve already had multiple people make me feel bad for this... I do not believe I am wrong. not one person who works with me or lives close has helped me during this pregnancy and yet they are the ones who want to “see what she looks like” 🤦🏽‍♀️ like no. not invited.