Well coming up this Valentine’s Day my fiancé and I will be engaged for 2 years. It seems long for me but much needed and I know other couples who have been engaged longer. But it’s like we never can pick a date. We just want to get married in the court and we actually have our outfits already I have a reg white wedding dress and him a tux bc we were going to get married last year but my dad convinced him not to bc of finances. But finances are good now and we finally moved in together in August.

We have been wanting to get preg forever lol but I have a mental health disorder that requires me to take meds so I need to get off those slowly first.

But does it even matter what order we do things anymore?