I was with my ex for almost a year i didn’t know he had an STD! I cannot stress how important it is to get tested when you’re dating a new partner even if you have no symptoms. I didn’t find out until I went to get a Pap smear almost 8 months later !! I’m 100% positive that my ex was the one to give me an std because I had not been with anyone besides a virgin after we broke up. I got treated right away and so did my partner and then I informed my ex but he wouldn’t believe it and refused to get tested. He’s known for going clubbing and hooking up with multiple woman so it worries me that he’s going around spreading stds!! He was dating two girls that I know of since we last broke up but when I went to go message them on Facebook I couldn’t find there page so I’m thinking he blocked me from there accounts or something!! How can I tell these poor girls ! Or maybe I should just let them find out on there own 😳 I also tried looking for one of the girls accounts on a different Facebook but couldn’t find her name and she’s from out of town so I have no way of contacting her