I have decided today to go and get an ultrasound done on Thursday for gender I am going to be 13+3 wks. Yes Ik it’s early and the tech has let me know that but they will allow me to come back and redo the scan and I will still have my 20 wk ultrasound with my doctor. I’m just really impatient about finding out the gender and unfortunately I cannot do the dna testing as the appointments for those in my area conflict with my work schedule