So I'm planning on giving birth at a midwifery and I'm not getting an epidural, of course this is if everything goes smoothly with my pregnancy. Well when I tell people this they always have something to say about how I should go to hospital or theyll tell horror stories from other people. Is it just me or have other people felt judgement from others for their plan? It's not going to change my mind by any means, but it does bother me a bit.