Hey everyone!

This is my first time posting and just wanted to say a couple of things!

Can’t be more happy to have found this app it’s like a bunch of women cheering each other on I love it!

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 years 8years!! And yes I said boyfriend.

He has yet to pop the question and that is something I would never want to put pressure on someone to do. I’m very easy going, and to be honest I just turned 29 and I’m starting to feel a certain way.

I think it’s not necessarily about the actual “wedding” it’s more so the thought of him “wanting” to marry me.

He’s a great man, and I’m not just saying that. He takes good care of me loves me for all my flaws.

My biggest problem is that I’m pretty freaky when it comes to sex and he is very vanilla.. I’m hoping we can work on that.

What would you ladies do in my position?

Do I wait? Do I just accept that marriage isn’t for us. And do I live life with just average sex because I love the man?