I got tested over a year and a half ago and was good. Since then I’ve had 2 partners. The recent one has been a off and on friend of 3 years. I was really looking forward to where it might go with him.

Went to the gyno Friday to get in the depo shot and went ahead and did a full panel test (swab and blood draw). It the call today that I have chlamydia. 😞 I have had no symptoms. I told both of the men since I have no clue whom gave jt to me or how long I’ve had it. Both acted upset and with sarcasm like “greaaaatt” and “okaye.. awesome..” .... the one I just went on a date with last Friday ... I just.. I think he’s done with me. Both act like it obviously came from me. Like I’m the only one who can carry it and pass it around and I’m gross. Can’t men carry it also? Can it lie dormant for years?

I haven’t talked more with the guy I “was” seeing. Wasn’t Gona push the buttons with after the news I gave him and his responses. He says he’s Gona do a home test and can order the medication if he has it, asked what the doc gave me so I told him and that’s it.

I’m sure there’s nothing I can do to still have a chance with him. I feel like I blew it and he will want nothing to do with me over something I had no clue about. ...

I’m embarrassed and hate myself. I read online it’s common tho... still... 😒😞

Has anyone else had this before? You or a friend? How did they handle it and how did their partner deal with it?

Thanks

(Add on) I did tell both of them to get tested if that wasn’t a guess from what I typed above.