Hey guys,

So here's a little run down, my husband and I live with his grandma to help with bills, she felt unsafe by herself, and to drive her to and from work. With this situation he is able to go to college and further his education and I'm able to work. Then when he is done with school, we will flip. He works, I go to school.

Here's the thing now, his grandma has a daughter (his aunt) who for sure did meth, lost everything from it. Not sure if she still does. But she is homeless, she stayed with us for a few days, my husband asked her if she ate my ice cream and she flipped out. Hit us with a baseball bat, broke an ash tray on my head, threw a painting at him, threw a sensy wax dish at him, punched us, and threw a fan at him. She left, got arrested. Grandma asked if the aunt could stay for a few days, we said that's fine as long as she respects us (after deeply thinking about it). It was fine for a few days. Then we are asked if she could move in. We were under pressure because grandma wanted an answer that night, less than 12 hours to think about it. We went ahead and said that's fine but she still needs to be respectful. Things were good. She even put in about 900 dollars of food stamps in the house. Let's fast forward a few more days. Today, she gets her daughters. Who she has absolutely no rights to, no custody, no nothing. She only got them today because grandma enforced it and has to be there to supervised. Everything was cool for a little. Then my husband was rushing me to leave with him, his cousin, and the aunt's daughters wanted to go to CVS. So I go upstairs and I said I was ready and asked where the girls were. He said they left to go to CVS. And here it's not only slippery and snowing but it's about -13°. On top of that, they are 12 and 13. The 12 year old was molested last year, I'll get to that in a second. So, I'm like, come on. Let's go. So we get our stuff and we are walking out and she starts wigging out. Screaming, yelling, crying. Saying it's not that cold, she doesn't care if they walk, they are old enough and she doesn't care what they do. 1, it's stupid cold. They are both in leggings, short sleeve shirts, and weather breaker jackets. 2, the 12 year old was molested last year and she is comfortable with 2 preteen girls walking in negative weather, not properly dressed and they have mental disabilities and physically cannot fight anyone off. Why put them in that position?

Now here is my personal issue, my husband and I are trying to bring a baby into this world. What is some advice? I am not going to leave him over something he can't control. I don't want to take myself away from the place because 1, our name is on the lease. 2, we help her out. I don't want to screw her over. 3, I shouldn't have to be away from my husband unless needed. We had a say over her moving in but have no say of her moving out. And at this moment we don't have money to get our own place and we didn't plan on moving until grandma is stable and safe to live on her own. I refuse to bring a precious innocent child into this kind of environment. And I refuse to live in this kind of environment myself. I don't even let my little sister come over because of how bad the aunt makes everything. I need advice.