14 year old needs help.

sorry for the pic, but i am 14 and i do not have a good enough relationship with my mom to ask about these. everytime i shave, i always get these. they do itch sometimes. ive tried shaving with coconut butter, using a different razor, or using baby oil after shaving. how can i cure AND prevent these? :,( (i do not shave because i am sexually active, i shave because it gets very long and itchy)

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