So I’ve been dating my now boyfriend since August but we have been talking since last February. We both admitted that before we got serious we were having sex with other ppl. Now I really do love my boyfriend but the sex is just okay. The person before him sex was amazing (nasty, kinky...etc) but with my new boo it’s like just okay. How do I spice things up or tell him exactly what I need from him? And how do I tell him I want to do erotic, and weird sex stuff without seeming weird lol....