So I just got engaged on the 19th

I’m so excited!! we were on vacation in Hawaii it was super romantic everything I could of ever dreamed of ❤️❤️ anyways now that we’re home I’ve started doing some general planning. I was going over the guest list and I noticed I’d save a lot of money by not inviting my extended family’s children (cousins children). Right now I have 35 children on the guest list

So what do you guys think? Should I try to limit it to first cousins only? Is it rude not to invite their kids? I don’t want my wedding to be a zoo with a ton of children running around. But I also don’t want to offend anyone by letting family I’m closer with bring their kids and not others who I only see annually if that. Ahhh stressed and this is just the beginning lol any advice or ideas are appreciated. Thanks ladies!!

P.s couldn’t resist adding some pictures from when my fiancé proposed!! 🥰