Heey ladies.

I know this might be tmi but I really think I have vaginismus. This means the surrounding muscles of vagina makes it clearly painful or impossible to have good sex. The muscles tightens so much that the ‘penis’ can’t fit in properly which can cause major pregnancy issues. I’m just very worried and embarrassed to share this with anyone but opening up today. I just wanted to keep my hopes up high and think nothing is wrong with me it’s just my mind and no matter what I can get pregnant. Everything else is fine with me no other health issues or mensural cycle issues. Can someone help me resolve this? I have not been to a obgyn yet, was thinking to schedule a appointment soon. We have been trying for a year can this be the reason ? What are the chances of pregnancy with that symptom ?