I don’t know what’s going on but it’s affecting me emotionally badly!!!!!!

We have been trying to conceive for over a year. On my non fertile days, My husband is erect and wanting sex... we always have sex. But on my fertile window and ovulation days, my husband has absolutely no erection, no matter what we do. We have tried everything but he would have no erection at all. It’s been months upon months of the same thing. It’s breaking my heart.

I understand the comments suggesting that I shouldn’t tell him when I am ovulating, but if I don’t tell him, he would not be around when I am fertile and ovulating as he works a lot. I have to tell him when so he will be around on those days