I know this sounds odd. How can somebody not be able to figure out sex? It’s pretty straight forward. But me and my husband can’t. We’re both Christians and waited until we were married to have sex. Despite the difficulties we’ve been having we still don’t think that was a mistake.

Even though we haven’t been able to have real sex we are satisfied so our sex life is actually nice. Rubbing our wet genitals together feels really nice and we both end up finishing every time.

But we can’t have real sex. His penis just won’t go in. We will position it and get the tip in but the minute he tries to thrust it either goes down into my butt crack or up onto my clit 🤷🏼‍♀️. And it’s not like he is soft. He isn’t. W e’ve tried being really wet, medium wet, dry....nothing helps. We’ve tried different positions too. It’s always the same. I’m not sure what we’re doing wrong.

We’re not sexually frustrated per-say because we both orgasim often and the humping and gridning feels nice. But his penis is never inside of me.

It’s not that big of an issues right now but we want to be parents one day. We’re not using protection right now. But I know the likelihood of us becoming pregnant when he’s just cumming on my vagina and not in it is pretty slim. That’s the only thing we’re worried about. Our ability to be able to get pregnant when he can’t seem to get inside of me.