Baby daddy with bad anxiety

Sam • Meadow Sage Wood has arrived 😍

So my bf is an absolute sweetheart and knows hes a work in progress but lately his anxiety is getting out of hand. I have depression and anxiety and we both come from bad homes/childhoods. He keeps getting in fights with me over little things and I've been trying not to instigate anything but it seems like no matter what I do hes getting mad over little things, like the way I say something or "accusing" him of acting a certain way. There are constant guilt trips whether he means to or not. Later on after hurling insults at each other he is crying and apologizing and saying that hes scared to lose me. When is enough enough? I'm worried about the stress toll that the baby might be taking.