Baby shower - UK

So my friends spoke to me a few weeks back about them throwing my baby shower for me. They mentioned about inviting certain people and where it was going to be and whatever else.

I’m 34 weeks and nothing has been said since, I don’t know if it’s happening or if it isn’t. Me and my boyfriend was speaking about it last night and we have both said if nothing gets done we both won’t be very happy about it.

Another one of my friends has been engaged for 2 years and just booked her wedding for next year and the talk is already on for her hen do next year, the planning has started between everyone and I just feel if this can get said now why has nothing been said about my baby shower?

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Ha

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Just ask them about it? Maybe they just didn't want to bother you with all the planning details.

ka

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Time is kinda running out. If you are wanting a shower I definitely would ask when it is so you can be prepared? It kinda sounds like they might’ve changed their minds if they’re only talking about the wedding and not a shower for you? Best of luck.

So

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I would ask them about it. Maybe they are planning it but not bothering you with all the planning of it all. It could also be a surprise and they will take you out one day and it will be a surprise baby shower. But if in doubt, and if it would upset you if you don’t have one then ask them, at least you know where you are then x