okay ladies,

a little back story. my man was with a girl years ago for a while, she got pregnant. after raising the baby with her for month he decided to see if the child was his. she wasn’t.

fast forward to now,

him and i are together, i am not pregnant but we want a kid. but he says if we have a baby together he would get a paternity test done.

so i get it, he had a messed up experience, but.... it kind of makes me feel upset to think that when and if we have a child together he would even remotely think it wasn’t his.

what do you ladies think?