Scared to have sex

Em

Like the title says, ever since I found out I’m pregnant again I’m terrified to have sex with my husband. I can’t get over this irrational fear that it will cause spotting and send me into crazy anxiety mode, I know if I see blood I will have horrible flash backs that I mentally can not handle, and I feel

horrible about it. My husband and I have always had a very healthy sex life, and he’s been super patient and understands, but I really don’t want our sex life to be effected because it’s something that’s always been really strong in our relationship.

How do I get over this?