Am I about to have my second MC?

I’ve been spotting off and on for most of this month (The last two cycles since my MC have been super wonky, I think my hormones are out of whack now). Once or twice in the last two weeks I had a day or so where it was heavier and I thought, oh here comes my period early, but it never happened. AF should have been here for sure yesterday so I took a dollar store test today just for closure for this cycle and it was positive. Three more dollar store tests and two first responses later I’m in tears because I don’t have a good feeling at all. This is exactly how my miscarriage started in November and it was a long drawn out horrible experience that I’m still emotionally recovering from. My obgyn scheduled me for February 18th even though I’m bleeding. Doesn’t it seem like they should have me doing hcg levels at least at this point? When I had my MC in Nov they got me in as soon as I had a positive test even though it was so early and did betas and then repeated to verify they were not doubling. Should I be asking them to get me in sooner? Has anyone ever bled and had a happy outcome? I just want my rainbow and I feel like this isn’t it 🥺🥺😭😭😭