I don’t know what to do

Hello, my husband and I have been married for 3 years. We are a young couple, he is 30 years old and I am 27. Everything at the beginning of the relationship was beautiful and then after the year of marriage the details were gone, he was not the same anymore, sex began to diminish and I started to worried for him, I am very sexy and daring, I do everything in the house, I cook for him, I wash his clothes, I iron his clothes, I do everything to him. He does not go shopping with me, he does not like to travel with me, he does not like to go out with me, he does not have photos with me on Facebook, almost nobody knows that we are married and when I ask him about those things he does, he gets angry and mentions divorce indirectly . We do not have children and he wanted to do a vasectomy, the doctor said: you know that if you do vasectomy so young, this can cause a divorce and he did not care. Right now we have not had sex for 7 months, because he has no desires, I get sexy, I make him a good meal and Aromatic candles everything very romantic and he asks me: why did you light candles? I'm tired and go to sleep. This has lowered my self-esteem because I do not feel enough woman for him. I'm a fashion designer and I wanted to travel to an event in Paris and he got so mad that he told me he was going to end the relationship because I think he's a millionaire, I've stuck a lot in my career to follow his dreams ... he is military so I must follow him everywhere. I spoke to him to look for help and he does not want to seek help and I really do not know what to do anymore, with him I can not start a conversation because he gets angry and stops talking to me.