When your hair is thicker than you are🤦🏻‍♀️

Long hair is hard work 😓 it takes me close to an hour to brush my hair after I shower. But I couldn’t imagine cutting it. I use oil daily in it, even multiple times and it helps a lot. Does anyone else have any suggestions to help with it? It seems like as much as I brush it, It still is tangled🤦🏻‍♀️