When you are in a relationship either boyfriend or fiance is it ok for them to constantly text other girls? This has been an ongoing argument for 4 years. He says no unless it becomes inappropriate. I asked how many times his conversations have become inappropriate and if he started it. He said not often and it wasn't always him. What are your feelings? I'm not saying he cant have friends, but as a known cheater I dont feel that should be in a relationship. I guess I need to add that we are no longer together, but he brought the subject up again the other night.