would it be rude of me to add do’s & don’ts on my baby shower invitations??? i definitley don’t want anyone buying pacifiers (we plan on not using them)... i’d prefer UN-scented wipes & pure pampers diapers... don’t want anyone to bring newborn sized diapers (my husband & i will buy those bc i’ve heard some babys DON’T go through many boxes of that size, don’t want to have extra boxes) ... i feel like this would be easier then everyone asking me hehe! 👶🏼💗 first baby so obviously ANYTHING is appreciated, but still know what i do/don’t want..