Erectionnnnn

So today me and my boyfriend had sex and the first round he got hard and we fucked but when he went to the bathroom to change his condom he kind of took a long time lol so he came out and said he has to get hard again and then he realized he lost his tv remote which was I don’t know why a big deal to him it took up most of the time 🙄 and still hasn’t found it so we try to have sex again and he couldn’t get hard no matter what I sucked him up and he fucked me soft which idk why and I feel worthless asff like is it me or why did he not get hard ?