So I’ll start from the beginning so I was a month into my job when this new guy started. We occasionally exchange glances and smiles. Fast forward a month we started talking and I asked him to prom shortly after we started dating and he then because my first. Since we worked together we were technically supposed to be dating but we were the same level so it didn’t seem like a big deal we were so happy. But he wouldn’t let me talk to my friend who also worked with us if we had problems. I couldn’t talk to anyone else at work either. He then got a promotion and was a step above me and since I was supposed to be transferred soon we never said anything. But he got me a promise ring before I left. But I decided to stay and take a leave of absence while I was playing softball at college( by the way it takes up a lot of time) when I left things got tense between us we started arguing because I couldn’t hangout or make fore sure plans. Then he started not trusting me if I made a new friend and didn’t tell him immediately. We started fighting all the time to where I would cry myself to sleep. Like this guy would keep me on the phone for 2 hrs just to accuse me of things and make me feel awful. He then got another promotion and became my manager so things at work would stress him out and then he’d take it out on me. It became soo much I couldn’t handle it anymore and I broke it off with him. He then proceeded to call me childish for breaking up with him and blocked me on everything. But this guy did things to me that no one should have to deal with in the time we were together he faked having an health problem and would make me feel bad for not being able to see him in the hospital even though he wouldn’t tell me where he was. And when I looked at Snapchat is said he was at work but since I wasn’t allowed to talk to anyone I confronted him and he said it must be a glitch. He continued to do this like 5 more times and tell me that his doctor would give home so many months to live and I didn’t have a choice but to believe him. He used to tell me things like he got hit by a car, got shot, passed out while driving and wreaked his car. ( there was absolutely no damage by the way) he would get into fights. Then he said he would come up to campus and threaten to fight any guy that so much as looked my way. When I broke up with him he tried to get me to stay by saying he was going to kill him self. Because he had nothing to like for.( for the record this guy has a daughter and he very much got to see her.) now fast forward it’s thanksgiving break I was talking to myself in the mirror that morning telling myself that I wasn’t going to react to him or even look at him if I could help it. As soon as we walked in the building and he got a chance he pulled me to the side and asked if I was okay and said that he never stopped loving me. And for some reason I believed it and I wanted it back. And I told him I wanted him back. So after work we sat and talked and decided what needed to change. He said if I wanted him back I would have to work for it. Fast forward a month I did everything this man wanted and more to we even hung out and ( did the naughty But it meant something to me) after a month and a half of trying to prove how much I wanted us back I got told that he lost all love for me and that I’d probably never get it back. I was devastated. Not only did that hurt but to add fuel to the fire, I found out that this man was flirting with the girls at work hanging out with them and lord knows what else that hit me really hard but then I found out that he was engaged the entire time we were together and I was just some side piece that he never actually cared about and I found this out at work so naturally I was historical and one of the managers told the higher up managers and then the boss found out. He blamed me for everything and his his wife found out and screamed at him and said he would never see his daughter again and then he cornered me at work and was pissed. He told me that birth control doesn’t mess with emotions like they messed with me and that I should have controlled my emotions. And he blocked me again and freaked out. So then I decided to go with my friend from work to take the ring that he got me appraised and it was fake the lady who appraised it was his aunt. Because thats where he got it from. She never heard of me and she was convinced that him and his baby momma were still together ( baby momma - wife) he told me that they were separated. She confirmed several lies he told me and then told his mom. His mom cussed him out and he then cornered me at work in a room by myself and threatened to call the cops on me if I went near his family. And proceeded to pace outside the door for 30 mins while I was alone in there. Finally I got a lunch and went to my car and cried. I reported the incident to my managers and I don’t know if anything with happen but he still blames me because he fucked up. He apologized but expects me to call him on someone else’s phone because my number is blocked and talk shit out. I since have said fuck it and I very high key hope karma treats him like he treated me. He led me on took my virginity and my trust just for his amusement.

I just need to let this out I’ve been holding onto this for such a long time and affected my friendships and I’m finally learning how to trust some again.