Did you move on?

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Do you ever move on from your “First love”? Do they become memories? Do you still cry? What goes on? How’s it like when meeting new people? I literally just got out of a 4 year relationship. I was so in love, and it absolutely hurts. I know I’ll get over it eventually. I’m just really curious as to how it affected some of you. Any things to look out for?

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You move on. I never think about the “first love”. It was almost 20 years ago. I don’t care what he is doing, if he’s alive nothing.

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Since I met my husband I realized I never loved anyone before. I had no idea what love was until I met him

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My first long term relationship ended badly. We were together 3 years, i was in grade 12 and he had gone off to community college. One day in class i got a text from him asking if i wanted to come over for supper the next night. Texted him back saying of course and then out of no where he blocks me through every social media, blocks my texts and calls. No explanation. And this went on for 5 months. Then i get a text saying i dont love you, once we stopped talking it was hard to start again. He would then lead me on and act like he wanted me and then ignore me for weeks. 
This broke me. I mean, devastated me. I cried all the time, felt like i wasnt good enough for anyone, quit the sports i was playing at school, lost contact with friends.  Made the choice to graduate high school early in feburary Instead of june so i didnt have to be around people anymore. 
It eventually got better, and my best friend who stuck around got me through it. A few months later i met my (now) fiancè and life has never been better. And wouldnt you know after i met someone he decided he wanted me back "for good" 
Not going to lie, i still feel hurt some days about how my ex handled it. I still cry about just how miserable my life felt back then. 
But i survived, i found the person who i was meant to be with. You will eventually move on, each day will be easier I promise you. Never give up.

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My first love and I broke up 2 years ago ... and I can look back at the memories we had ( we dated a year and a half ) and I’m thankful for them and for him and his family but it doesn’t hurt anymore . The hurt part will fade away . Not right away , but with time .

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