Hes not stopping you from leaving. Call your dad to come help you get your stuff, i doubt he'll try that shit then. And be sure to block his number, social media, and all methods of communication when you leave.

All these comments are great but also remember DO NOT TELLHIM WHERE YOU ARE MOVING TOO.

Won’t let you leave??Nah, he can’t do that. Call the police for a civil standby, they can stand there as you pack up, if you’re afraid of anything happening.

Gas lighting.. it’s a real thing.. I struggled like this when trying to leave an abusive relationship. I found strength in knowing I would never want another guy treating my daughter the way I was being treated. I also told myself just because I love him doesn’t mean I have to love with him.

See if you can have some friends or family there while you pack. Take everything in one shot and don't look back.

I would see if your community’s courtesy officer ( or a real officer if you’re not at an apartment community) can come be present while you move out.

Watch some YouTube videos on Narcissist and Codependent relationships. You’ll learn a lot and gain more strength & the resolve to do it.You’ve got this! You deserve so much better and you will get it once you finally leave. I believe in you girl!

Go to the police station and make a report and file a restraining order. This sounds EXTREMELY toxic. You never know what goes on in people's head. Make sure you tell as many people you can that your relationship is done and you don't want anything to do with him anymore. Don't listen to what he says stay STRONG you're making the right move. I was in a very abusive relationship in Canada. So I had no family no friends and he was very controlling. I couldn't go anywhere in Las he was with me. He would leave me alone all the time and go out till all hours. He would take the phone cord and computer cords so I could not contact anyone. If a curtain was moved he would beat me because he said I was showing myself to people outside. I wasn't allowed to wear makeup, nail polish, dress nice nothing. I was lucky his parents and my parents got me out of there. My parents got me a plane ticket and paid for my transportation to the airport. The morning I left he actually showed up at the pickup location (a hotel) and was begging me to stay but I had to get put of there. I lost 60 pounds in 4 months I had bruises everywhere. When i got back home he would call me all the time. At work at home call call call. So much i jad to make a police report and my parents had to change the number they had since before i was born. Get out NOW and don't look back. You're life is worth so much more.

Be strong! Don't give in! He's trying to manipulate you. Call the police if you have to. A restraining order probably isn't a bad idea

Stop letting him guilt trip you. Focus on the reasons why you're leaving. He had his chance to treat you right and he obviously can't see that you're better off without him. If he really loved you, he would want what's best for you, regardless of whether that means you're in his life or not