I mean, is this totally out of line?

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he asked me to dinner three days ago. Then sends me this. He’s flipping out saying he’s doing the best he can, and he has caught up on a lot of crap this week but, am I not allowed to be disappointed that the dinner he asked me to is on me? I have NO problem splitting or taking turns but to ask me and then say weeeeellll I’ve got me covered but yo-yo is kinda crappy to me..also stressed me the f out that we just found out we’re pregnant too. 😳

I’ve also apologized for reacting in that way saying I was just a little disappointed not to mention the effing hormones. And he’s letting it ruin the entire night. Plus I’d gotten a sitter for my son and planned on /looked forward to this all damn week . I can afford my own damn dinner because I know how to handle my money and I have my son and I covered with NO help, I’m just disappointed. And now I’m pissed that he’s letting it ruin the whole thing that I said something.

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Eta again:

I have no problem paying, at all. I’ve paid for dates before. I paid for our Starbucks run this morning and for breakfast. It was more the concept of having asked me to dinner then asked me to lay my own way when I threw our even a lot of other cheap or free options. We’ve been together six months and he had s taken me on two dates, I’ve paid for the rest. And I think subconsciously I feel like if you can’t handle one cheap dinner how the fuck are we going to do a baby? Idk I’m fucking hormonal and feel like Shit for being so hard on him but trying to understand where I was coming from subconsciously.

ETA:

I 100% was coming from a place of if you cannot prioritize one damn dinner how are you going to prioritize caring for a baby and a toddler and a relationship? Following that whole incident we decided to do a make up date that was free and creative Sunday night. Saturday he had a funeral at 10am I was as supportive and present as I could be and when I got the vibe he was not wanting to talk I complimented his photo he sent me and then hours later asked if he was okay. I didn’t hear from him until 3am when he responded “I’m a big kid” he ALWAYS calls me at the end of the night even when (yeah, that’s a problem too) he gets trashed so it was extremely weird. So when he called me in the morning (which he only does when he has a guilty conscious) I asked if he could communicate more so I don’t lose sleep worrying about if he’s okay. And he lost his crap about how that’s controlling and blah blah blah. The conversation ended okay and he agreed that it was immature and whatever. Come time for our make up date he isn’t picking up his phone and isn’t home. So I keep calling. He texts me saying he’s at his moms (his moms in Cabo on vacation) so I keep calling and he finally picks up and I asked where he was and if his mom was back and he said he’s and I asked why he didn’t let me know so I could’ve planned accordingly and he got all pissed off about me always having a problem so I just said I hope you got what you needed and hung up. Well I had texted his mom before that because he never goes to visit her so I’m over here thinking someone died (before I talked to him) she texts me shortly after I got off the phone with him and says yeah we’re still in Cabo is everything ok? So I did what girls do and called him again and asked for the truth and he was all tripped up and I went off on him about EVERYTHING. His irresponsibility, immaturity, lack of respect, manipulation, etc. and was like you think I always have problems well it starts with you and your behavior and your entire lack of respect for me and the relationship unless it serves you in some way and I hung up. Then he wouldn’t answer again so I texted him this.