About 3 months ago.....

I'm in a loving relationship with this guy and have been for almost two years. Things have been going great until about three months ago or so.

I was at my friends house smoking. Things were going well until we kissed. Sadly tha kiss lead to making out, then we had sex. The sex wasn't bad or anything. What made things bad was that he finished in me....

Fast forward to about a month or two ago. I had an appointment with my doctor and she informed me that I apparently was pregnant but the embryo didn't develop. Essentially I had what she said was a blighted ovum. She told me that it happens within the first trimester. I actually lost my first son or daughter before I was even aware that I was pregnant.

My boyfriend or my friend still don't know about this at all. Should I tell them and if so how should I approach telling them?

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you should tell your boyfriend because he deserves a better girlfriend than you. who cares about telling the friend, the fetus didnt even develop.

Sy

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Tell him or don't but I think you should break up. You're not really in love with someone if you would cheat no matter how high or drunk you were. That's not real love or respect. The other guy doesn't need to know either

Ca

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Honestly i don’t know the “ right “ thing to do but i would not tell them .. live & learn from your experiences i think you should definitely tell someone close to you that you can talk to about it

Ca

Carina❣️ • Jan 25, 2019
Yeahh my best friend would not agree with my bad choices either but if she’s a real friend she should be there for you still do you think you can trust her ?

Ka

Kay • Jan 25, 2019
I have one friend who im close with that i could tell. But she would probably kill me knowing that i essentially cheated.

Ky

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A blighted ovum, while technically considered a type of miscarriage, was not a pregnancy. There was never any baby. Only a gestational sac. There was no actual loss.