Attraction

I finally met a guy with the same kinks as me in my area and I really do like his personality too. We have a lot in common. But the issue is that I’m not attracted to his looks. At all. (He used old photos when I first started talking to him. I wasn’t super into them but he looked fairly better in them). But I don’t know if I’ll be able to find some one with my kinks again in my area for quite awhile and I really want to live them out. I have the chance to with him but I don’t know. Is it possible to get past looks or will it 100% ruin it? He claims he finds me very attractive though. Maybe I should stop talking to him to spare feelings?