my boyfriend just broke up with me the day after my 20th birthday and it was over text it hurt so much because he was my first boyfriend first kiss and my first time and then out of the blue he just texts me saying it's because of not having enough time but i did everything and used all my spare time to go see him and try to do things with him everyone is like you will find the right person but i still love him and i still want to be friends , how long does it take to get over someone in your opinion ?