so my boyfriend apparently said his old friend that he used to get high with (a big red flag for me because drugs are a hard no in our relationship now) could live in our basement. we currently already have my boyfriend's parents and uncle living with us so it already doesn't feel like my home (I can't even use the living room because his uncle and his nasty dog take it over).

but my boyfriend said his friend could live in our basement without consulting me first. he didn't tell me till today. like the day before he's supposed to move in. we were supposed to fix up the basement and move down there so I could finally have the space I'd like while we wait to save up for a nicer house.

am I allowed to be mad for him doing this without asking for my input?

it's also upsetting because our plan was to eventually get a nice house for ourselves and let his parents and uncle have the current one. but now I'm worried that when that does happen, that he'd pull this again and just allow anyone to live with us. I've lived with six people in a house (my parents and 4 siblings). and I've lived with his parents and uncle and his uncle's gross untrained dog. I. Want. My. Own. Space.

not to mention, he pissed me off a while ago while we were looking at houses because he said we shouldn't spend a little more money to have an extra bathroom because we wouldn't need it. and all I said was that I didn't want guests to share a bathroom with us. but yet he goes ahead and let's his friend live in our basement.