Is there anything I can do to spice/ ramp up my sex life with my dude?? It’s down to 1 a month now.

He turns me down at the time, I feel so pushy now and I’m turning my own self off from it.

Let me explain further

He can’t keep it hard and he can’t cum with me.

He resents sex now and says it’s pointless (selfish yes)

I have offered everything you can imagine and it seems like he has just gave up. I strongly think the condoms are a problem but he says this has never happened to him.

So I need more ideas. I want to sent a cute sexy flirty text message where all he can think about is my lips on him so when he gets home he is itching to have me . I’ve tried all my own techniques I need new ones

Sexy selfies are ignored 😔

I finally got it out of him and he said this has happened before to him. So medical issue it is