What do I do

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My husband left me tonite. We currently live at my parents and have a 5 month old son. 
Im assuming he’s gonna come back tomorrow and grab more of his stuff and will want to take our son and go to his parents. 
What do I do? 
Bc if he takes him I can’t get him back, is that correct? He’s petty so I feel like he probably won’t give him back if I were to come and pick him up later on. Help me please.
He works. I currently don’t Bc we moved back here from another state. I have been looking for a job. ( now that he has left I’m applying even more to places that aren’t even ideal but now I’m desperate) Before when we fought he told me he would take our son and his mom will be watching him. ( even tho she barely sees our son, and I’m not working yet). 
To the one comment. He’s not just my son. He’s both of ours. So what tell him if he wants to see his son it can only be at my parents house and that he’s never allowed to take him till a divorce is figured out? I feel like that can get me in trouble that is why I’m asking.

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Go see a lawyer....sounds like this ones gonna get nasty

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So don’t let him take your son...?

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Go to seen legal council. There are lots of free services but you need to act quickly to get the best advice. If your son is 5 months old I would agree that he needs his mother first and foremost. You need to keep him in your custody until you can come up with a formal agreement outlined by lawyers and a judge.

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You don’t have to let him take your son. Why would he take your son if he works during the day and you don’t? There is no need for him to have his mom watch him when you’re home. Lock the doors and if he wants to get his stuff he can call or use the doorbell because it’s not his house.

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If your husband left the home, I think that you’re legally ok keeping your son. Get a lawyer. Sorry that this is happening!

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See a lawyer asap. I wouldn't hand over the baby till after you do. If he's saying he will take him from you then you need to make sure you're protected until after you have a visitation order in place.

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Call the police and have them come out while he gets his stuff, surely he won’t fight with u abt taking your son, if he even wants to take him in the first place.

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I'm so sorry! How horrible. You don't have to let him back in the house and you don't have to give him your child. Leave his stuff outside and don't let him in. He has technically abandoned you and his child. Get legal advice immediately. Co-parenting is best so hopefully you can see a mediator together and agree to an arrangement. 
Big hugs. Xx

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Raise hell and don’t have him take your son! You carried your baby 9 months in your stomach to let him just take him away. Idc if that’s his dad. A child needs their mother. Have him see his child on the weekends. If I were you go to the courts get full custody and have him see him once a week. Also get child support since you aren’t working and need help with your child’s expense. And He works anyways so who would watch your child. He wants to be petty you need to be pettier. Be 10 steps ahead and demand what’s right. He chose to leave you so he can care for his child.

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Why would his mom watch your son when you aren’t working and are perfectly capable of doing it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
Also, courts tend to favor the mom in custody situations.

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