So today he asked to see me.

I’m a single mom so I said I’ll see.

I don’t like leaving her over night with my mom.

So he then says “this is too much now”. And more things. So I’m like what’s the problem, you know I’m a mother. He then says, that’s not it there are other issues. So the conversation spirals and then tonight he says

, “I had a gift for you but it seems like every time I want to do something for you something happens. Maybe it’s not meant to be”

🙄 so I’m like, you had a gift for me and instead of saying so, you start a negative conversation saying you have some problem with me and then after you start it you blame me saying “something always happens “ as if the conversation randomly started. Or started because of me.

When he could’ve said from the beginning “I know you don’t like leaving your daughter over night but I have a gift for you so you can come get it and go home”.

He did this last January (of 2018).

He went out drinking, came back drunk talking all night about some WOMEN (more than one) that he was in love with and cheating on me with. The next day I was upset so when he said “come get your gift” I said “give it to Jessica” one of the women he mentioned.

Anyway he then later ignored my texts and ignored my gate call to get into his neighborhood. Then that night he sent me pictures of a balloon and a bear and said he wanted to give me that and A WEDDING RING but because I said something smart so HE CRIED and took everything back. So you took back a whole proposal because I was upset that you were talking about other women all night????

Anyway, I mentioned that to show what looks like a pattern to me. You do something and when I’m not jumping for joy over it, you say “oh I had a gift but we argued, I took it back, it’s not meant to be”.

Fucking Christ