So me and my ‘best friend’ have been really distancing from each other over the past year, as well as fighting constantly. I had trouble last year because I felt I couldn’t live without her and felt very dependent on her. She wasnt there for me when I have a complete breakdown that lasted the span of about 6 months, no matter how much I begged her to just show she cares.

Recently she has been going through a hard time because a boy she likes told her he is seeing someone else. Me and her are currently fighting because she has been treating me like shit all the time. But the boy she likes just announced on Facebook he is officially in a relationship. In my heart I want to message her and ask if she’s okay but at the same time I feel like she will just use me because she needs me now and then treat me like I don’t exist once she’s fine again

I just feel like our friendship has turned toxic and we both are different people now unfortunately

What would you do?