I can't tell 😒

Elizabeth • Aubrey Rose 1/31/19 ❤️👨‍👩‍👧 Baby #2 February 2025

So whenever I've gone to the hospital for concerns, they've told me that I'm having inconsistent contractions, but I never feel them. Basically I can't tell if I'm having them or not. But since last night I've had lower back pain that doesn't go away when changing positions, tight abdomen, sharp side cramps on my left side every so often, and menstrual-like cramps that go into my thighs. I'm so uncomfortable and I don't know if I should be concerned that this could be actual labor or what... I'm so tired of calling my Dr's office because they'll just tell me to go in and I'll be sent home. (I'm 38+3)