Does anyone else feel like their significant other or spouse is irritable with you because they are having to pick up “extra slack” around the house.

Don’t get me wrong I love my husband with all my being and he truly completes me and we have a wonderful relationship. However he is very non-confrontational, I am 35 weeks and have Pre-E. I have been put in bed rest pretty much and it is extremely hard for me because I am such an organized, OCD, Uber clean freakazoid! So NOT being able to do what I normally do and it falling on my husband to do, I can’t help but feel sometimes (like today) that when he is doing the dishes or something else that I normally do and I say “I was going to do that, in a bit” that I get a very cold toned response of “well now you don’t have to.” It hurts because I so badly want to do things, but physically can’t! And I hate feeling like he resents me for it. Maybe I am over thinking it and he really doesn’t mind, like he says he doesn’t but his tone really says otherwise....😢