Hi um I'm an African American high schooler who has recently fallen in love with korean culture, and with that, korean men and asian men in general. But I feel I little weird about it.

With the huge interest in things like kpop nowadays the fans have been spewing things like "don't sexualize Korean men" and its affecting me. Like I feel bad for being attracted to them like im not supposed to. And wondering if people will judge me and say I only like them because of *insert kpop group here*. Its quite nerve-wracking.

I don't want people to judge me because of this, but I also don't want to be ashamed of it. I don't even know if ashamed is the right word for this.

Please help me sort out my feelings. Is it bad that im attracted to asian men? Should I not care what others think?

I feel really dejected rn. Help ❤

[I posted this on 2 groups wasn't sure If I would get an answer]